My first week in Georgia is complete and I really don't have anything deep or fancy to report. Macon is flowing with sweet tea and Southern drawls, Blue Bell ice cream and waves and head nods from perfect strangers. I've encountered some of the nicest shady folks ever and I'll never look at "Bless your … Continue reading #MaconFiles: You’re Not From Here, Are You?
Author: Ash B.
Pants in the Pulpit Pt. I: A Mother’s Act of Resistance
A nice little Sunday read from my dear friend, Jade. Enjoy! xo, Ash!
16 Weeks.
Happy New Year, loves! (It's still early enough in the year to say that, right? I know…*side eyes myself*). I think this three week period is the longest I've gone without posting since I started the Girl with Black Pearls. It has not been without good reason though; these past few weeks have been a … Continue reading 16 Weeks.
#TopTen: Major Personal Lessons from 2014
(Image: http://www.wordfocus.com) Wow, it's December 30, 2014. What a year! I am so grateful for the many lessons that I was blessed to learn this year and here are just a few that I'd like to highlight. 10. Don't be afraid. This sounds so easy, right? Right. I don't think I've been shy about discussing ways in … Continue reading #TopTen: Major Personal Lessons from 2014
Unbossed. Unbought.
Own your thoughts. Own their brilliance. Own their shadows. Own your story. Unbossed. Unbought. - Jade Perry It's been a couple of weeks since I've been able to sit down and dedicate time to writing my thoughts and consider what it is I want to add to the various national conversations. Never in my lifetime … Continue reading Unbossed. Unbought.
ReDEFINING Me: In Pursuit of a Affirmative Self Identity
This week's blog is a post that I had the opportunity to contribute to the #ReDEFINING blog. Enjoy.
Winds of Change.
(Photo: hell-catvintage.com) The weather in the DMV has been pretty typical of a transitional season like Fall but for some reason I have been ill prepared this year. I haven't been ready for the shifts in the temperature, the darkening of the sky as I leave work in the afternoon, the "give yourself an extra … Continue reading Winds of Change.
Silence is Golden
I'm down at Liberty for my 3rd intensive this week and these classes have always proven to be more beneficial to me than their academic weight suggests. I am only halfway through this week and this intensive is no different. I have always been a person who prided myself on having no problem with being … Continue reading Silence is Golden
Knowing No.
I've been thinking a lot lately about who I am, how I value myself, and how my actions line up with my self-value. I've played the fool more times than I care to name because of fear that I wouldn't have opportunities over again. The problem is - I feared that about everything, even things … Continue reading Knowing No.
Diary of A Good Girl: What They Didn’t Tell Me.
Waiting. A theme I have tried my hardest to get around. A few months ago (seven to be exact), I wrote a blog entitled Sam’s Mama. At that point, I was in a very discouraging and unsure time in my life; the storms of my personal winter were weighing me down more than I … Continue reading Diary of A Good Girl: What They Didn’t Tell Me.