Becoming “that” girl…

"So what degree are you on now?" "How many more degrees are you looking at? 2? 3?" "So what's next? Doctorate and big job?" (Gif: buzzfeed.com) These are the questions hurled at me these days, usually accompanied by laughter (well, they laugh; I awkwardly smile).  At the risk of sounding ungrateful that the questions are … Continue reading Becoming “that” girl…

Open Secrets: The Church and Mental Health Pt. 1

(Source: bengordoncenter.org) May is Mental Health Awareness Month and as a graduate student pursuing a degree and career as a Professional Counselor, I could not let this month pass without using this platform to shed some light on mental illness. I grew up in the Church and I am generally grateful for the path my … Continue reading Open Secrets: The Church and Mental Health Pt. 1

Five Things I’ve Learned As A “PK” (…and Five Things PKs Might Want You To Know)

My father was elected to the Pastorate of the Macedonia Baptist Church in Southeast, Washington, DC on February 4, 2003 and was duly installed (so churchy!) on May 4, 2003.  It's been twelve years.  So in honor of this auspicious occasion, I thought I would talk about being a PK. The PK life is a … Continue reading Five Things I’ve Learned As A “PK” (…and Five Things PKs Might Want You To Know)

Ash’s Best Buys – 1Q2015

Most people who know me know that I love supporting people, especially those who are endeavoring to step out on faith to make their dreams come true.  With that said, I typically prefer to purchase from small business owners/entrepreneurs if I can, rather than from big retailers.  Social media has certainly been helpful in exposing … Continue reading Ash’s Best Buys – 1Q2015

Being Unbothered (…and Other Things We Don’t Mean)

I've noticed a trend in the past couple of years as social media has taken a prominent spot in the landscape of our lives.  There seems to be this idea of trying to make oneself seem as carefree or careless as possible.  The only problem is - our actions don't uphold what we "post" to … Continue reading Being Unbothered (…and Other Things We Don’t Mean)