Can You Handle the Real Me? Five Roadblocks to Vulnerability

People love a good story. Perhaps that's why we love to gravitate to people being honest (or what we assume to be honest) and we hail people for being vulnerable, authentic, or "real".  We crave for people to trust or honor us enough to expose who they are and what they are going through to … Continue reading Can You Handle the Real Me? Five Roadblocks to Vulnerability

Soundtrack to Losing & Finding Faith – Track 1: It Is Well

When peace like a river attendeth my way... My faith journey as I know it now is not as it had been.  I never thought I would be one of those people.  I just knew that the reassurance that I had about God, my faith, my destiny, my purpose would be the one thing that … Continue reading Soundtrack to Losing & Finding Faith – Track 1: It Is Well

Gifts with Different Labels

I've always been considered sensitive.  From my earliest collections of memories, I could always feel things deeply and react to them, usual with tears.  Over the years, I have had to learn to be more tough-skinned, mostly through being shamed about it. You need to grow some thick skin! You're so sensitive! Stop that crying! … Continue reading Gifts with Different Labels

I Admitted It. Now What?

Why are we so afraid to feel? Because denial. Denial keeps us unbothered.  Denial keeps us advancing.  Denial keeps us healing from those hurtful situations. Denial keeps us so bothered that it comes out in a number of ways.  Denial keeps us connected to situations and people for the sake of "saving face".  Denial convinces … Continue reading I Admitted It. Now What?

Keep Your Eyes On Your Own Paper!

I loved the students I was blessed to work with last year.  With one group, the lead teacher and I would give the students one minute math drills at the beginning of almost every math class session.  The students started on the same level at the beginning of the year.  Once we gave them the … Continue reading Keep Your Eyes On Your Own Paper!